Monday, September 20, 2010

Yo! Let Me Talk to You!

Psst. Ay Ma! Ay ma with the jacket on! Let me talk to you! Yo sexy, yo gorgeous! You know you hear me talking to you!

Those are just a few of the many ridiculous things that are shouted out at women on a daily basis. Matter of fact, seeing these cat calls in writing make them look even more ridiculous. I never could understand why some (not all) men feel the need to get a woman's attention like that. Despite all of this, according to male friend of mine, even the most polite way to start a conversation with a females gets the same brush off as the offensive. I think it's safe to say we've successfully confused men...once again.

Ladies, why is that when a man says, "excuse me, can I speak to you for a minute..." or something equally as polite we get all offended as if the guy said, "ay b***h let me holla at you real quick!"? As a friend of mine once told me, "I'm polite to y'all and I still get the n***a please look." With that being said, I found some videos and ladies think about which way you would like to be approached. But I will say you probably don't want to be approached like this:

....or like this (shouts to Kim on this one! lol)

1 comment:

Kim said...

Thanks for the shout out. I would wanna be approached like the second one, "Can I have your number?" He was persistent which shows he's really interested. LOL Just kidding. I like when guys are honest. Perhaps paying a compliment first and then asking for my number or offering theirs in hopes that I'll call. You know? Don't overdo it by saying what you would do, where we would go, etc.

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